Sat. Nov 27th, 2021
 
Wife and Husband

PATRIARCHAL FAMILIES IN  INDIA:

HELLO THERE ,

Here Iam going to narrate a story where in India the typical Patriarchal System works.

 

Ready Steady Go………………………………

 

Family: According to Sociologists, “the family is an intimate domestic group of people related to one another by bonds of blood, sexual mating, or legal ties. It has been a very resilient social unit that has survived and adapted through time”.

So,

Bonds of blood: For Men/Women: Brother, Sister, Mother, Father, Grandma, Grandpa and their ancestors.

Sexual Mating / Legal tie: For Men/Women: Wife, Girlfriend. For Women : Husband, Boy Friend.

Ok! Great.

Marriage: Sociologists define marriage as a socially supported union involving two or more individuals in what is regarded as a stable, enduring arrangement typically based at least in part on a sexual bond of some kind.

Wife and Husband

 

Now, Drama starts in the Family.

( This whole Drama I will tell you in Scenes ) HA HA HAAAAAAAAAAAA.

First Scene: Marriage (Men and Women)

Key roles : Men parents and their blood relatives and Women Parents and their blood relatives.

Both side parents gave their blessings to their Son and Daughter to live for long time.

 

 Second Scene: Here comes our newly married Couple (Hero and Heroine)

Drama Starts : They share food each other, all things goes well, understand each other, pinkblush on heroine(women) face, knowing each other and everypart in their bedroom, dining room, Hall etc…

What I mean to say is whole house is full of their laughings , gigglings, huggings , kissings what not….. everything goes happily .

 

Their some Phone Call:  Tring Tring Tring Tring……

Alert: Hero parents: Hello , How are you my son?

Son: (Suddenly at some moment he will remember mom and dad.). Hey Iam good and how about you?

Parents: (Second question without late) Is your wife treating you nicely?

Son: Yes mom and Dad, She is Good.

 

Alert: Heroine Parents: Hello, How are you my Sweetheart?

Daughter: Iam good ma .

Parents: How is your husband? Is he treating you nicely?

Daughter: Yes Ma. He loves me a lot, Over the heights of the mountain.

Parents: Smile……………… Big Smile……………………………….

 

Like this goes on…….Happily…… for hardly 2months……

 

What happened after that????

 

Is husband has the same love the day that he first got marry??? Is wife has the same love the day that she got marry?

 

Hmmmmm…………………………………………….(Need to Think)

 

Third Scene: Here comes the role of Mother-in-law and Father-in-law.(Boy’s Parents)

Mother-in-law
Mother-in-law

Mother-In-Law: (Her Intention is to control Daughter-in law) want to show some power( authority) on Daughter-in-Law (NOT ON SON , why because son is the blood but daughter in law? Who is she?)

Conversation between Mother-in -Law and Daughter-In -Law

Mother-in-law: If Daughter-in law agrees whatever the mother-in-law says then that daughter-in-law is good.

Wait a minute , What if not?

Here comes the role of conversation between Son(Our Hero) and his Mother

Mother: My son , How are you doing?

Son (Hero) : Great.

Mother: (Set our Hero’s mind) Son, you’re wife is not listening to me .

(Pause)

Hero: (Without anylate ) calls his wife…(Shouts like a hell)

Now think what is the status of Hero’s mother here (simply silent) . hmmmmm.

Wife(heroine):Yes Dear .

Hero: Are you listening to my mother?

Wife: Yes Of-course

Here is the entry of Mother-in -Law

Mother-in-Law: No she didn’t Son…….

Wife : She want to explain to her hubby but in between mother in law enters and push her son

Wife : Lost’s her patience.

Hero :Lost’s his patience.

Finally our hero rise up and slap heroine …………

All Silent………………………….. (End of that time quarrel)

 

Who satisfied here??????

Who got the disparities??

(To be continued)

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